GOOD ADVICE TO YOUNG MEN

THESE ARE FATHERLY ADVICE FOR EVERY UNMARRIED YOUNG MAN

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1. If you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, do not marry her.

2. A woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.

3. Don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office.

4. If I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. If you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, and she will keep on asking even when all has been spent.

6. Don’t ever beat your wife, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

7. Now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.
8. In our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. Under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.

10.Don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.
11.When I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much.

12. Remember, when you say your wife has changed; there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.

13. Your mother, Juliet rode bicycle with me before I bought car; therefore any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning is not worthy to enjoy your riches.

14. Don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. There is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.

17. Don’t stop taking care of me and your mother; it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

18. Pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything.